You’re a sexy, sexual woman. 💋
But somewhere along the way…you abandoned that version of yourself.
✦ Maybe you went through a divorce or breakup that left you so hurt that you shut yourself down sexually - and now, even though you’re horny as hell, you’re afraid to put yourself back out there.
✦ Maybe you’ve spent years in a relationship having mediocre, predictable sex and slowly stopped asking for the things you’re actually craving.
✦ Or maybe fear, shame, or worrying about how you’ll be perceived led you to bury your fantasies instead of seriously considering what you want, saying it out loud, and allowing yourself to experience it.
However it happened, the result is the same: instead of owning what you want, expressing it, or moving toward it, you’ve been living a watered-down version of your own sexuality.
And being a sexual woman with nowhere to put all of that sexual energy is fucking TORTURE.
But your power lies in remembering that YOU get to decide what you want, who you want to be, and how you want to live - and then moving accordingly.
Your desires are allowed to become more than fantasies you keep to yourself.
They can be expressed. They can be explored. And they can be fulfilled.
The woman who knows what she wants, believes she can have it, and refuses to let fear or shame stop her from pursuing it is still in there.
It’s time to bring her back.
Introducing Sexy Back
A 21-day challenge to reclaim the sexiest, most sexual version of yourself you abandoned somewhere along the way.
Through a combination of honest self-exploration and practical challenges, you’ll get clear on what you really want, own it without shame, express it without apology, and begin taking steps to make it happen.
THIS is for you if…
💋 You’re coming out of a divorce, breakup, or sexless relationship, horny as hell and ready to put yourself back out there - but fear, uncertainty, or simply being out of practice has kept you from doing it.
💋 You’re in a relationship, but the sex has become mediocre, predictable, or disconnected from what you actually want.
💋 You’ve always been a sexual person, but between being the good girl, the loyal partner, or the responsible one, you never gave yourself a real sexual exploration era.
💋 You have desires and fantasies you’ve never given yourself permission to explore - or perhaps even say out loud - because you’re afraid of being judged, rejected, or shamed for what turns you on.
💋 You struggle to communicate what you want, ask for something different, or speak up when the sex you’re having isn’t satisfying you.
💋 You’ve gone through a major personal or physical transformation - maybe you’ve lost weight, rebuilt your confidence, or become a version of yourself you’ve never been before—and you’re ready to explore your sexuality from here.
💋 You’re tired of keeping what you want trapped inside your head and ready to create a sex life that feels exciting, fully expressed, and completely your own.
what to expect:
This isn’t a basic challenge where I tell you to buy a sexy new pair of underwear or order a toy. Oh no. We’re going MUCH deeper than that.
Over the course of 21 days, we’ll move through three intentional phases:
💄 DAYS 1–7: RECONNECT WITH HER
You’ll get honest about who the sexiest, most sexual version of you actually is - and begin uncovering what you want, what turns you on, and what you’re curious to explore.
💄 DAYS 8–14: OWN WHAT YOU WANT
You’ll examine the fear, shame, good-girl conditioning, old experiences, and concern about other people’s perceptions that have kept you from fully owning this part of yourself.
You’ll begin making peace with what you want while learning to trust yourself, honor your boundaries, and stop making yourself wrong for your desires.
💄 DAYS 15–21: MOVE ACCORDINGLY
You’ll put words to what you want, learn to communicate it without apology, and begin taking real action.
That might mean writing your dating profile, having the conversation, putting yourself back out there, exploring a curiosity, or taking another practical step toward creating the experiences you want.
This isn’t only about discovering what you want. It’s about beginning to live like the woman who believes she can have it.
HI I’M SARA
For as long as I can remember, I’ve been a sexual person.
But being a sexual person and giving myself permission to fully live like one were two very different things.
I grew up overweight and deeply uncomfortable in my body - so uncomfortable that I didn’t lose my virginity until I was 22.
And my sexual experiences in my twenties did not look like carefree exploration.
They were largely experiences that didn’t center me, my pleasure, or what I genuinely wanted. They left me feeling as though sex was something I had given to someone else - something that had been taken from me rather than something that was also for me.
Then, in my thirties, I spent five years in a relationship during which I gained approximately 100 pounds - and was ultimately cheated on.
When that relationship ended, I was devastated.
I was so hurt and shut down that I didn’t date or have sex for almost five years.
I buried my desires. I numbed myself with work. I disconnected from the sexiest parts of myself.
Eventually, I decided I wanted her back.
I began exploring my sexuality on my terms. I had my first threesome, went to a few sex parties, explored my submissive side. I got honest with myself about what I wanted and began giving myself permission to actually experience it.
And it became one of the most empowering journeys of my life - because it was never simply about sex.
It taught me to speak up. To ask for what I wanted. To feel freer in my body. To trust myself. And to stop making myself wrong for the things I desired.
Today, I don’t just own those desires privately. I talk about them publicly.
It’s not always comfortable. People judge me. People try to shame me. But I remain deeply rooted in who I am, what I want, and the woman I’ve chosen to be - and I refuse to abandon her for anyone.
That is the freedom I want for more women.
I’ve also been a coach for 13 years and have coached thousands of women. While much of that work began in business, the heart of it has always been helping women get honest about what they really want, express it without abandoning themselves, and take action as the most powerful version of who they are.
Sexy Back is where those two parts of my life meet.
It’s everything I know about desire, self-trust, self-expression, and taking powerful action - applied to helping you reclaim your sexuality as your own.
an important, transparent note
I’m a coach. I’m not a therapist, trauma specialist, or certified sex coach.
Sexy Back is designed to help you get in touch with your desires, stop making yourself wrong for what you want, express yourself more confidently, and begin taking real steps toward experiencing it.
It is not designed to process or heal deep sexual trauma.
If significant sexual trauma is at the center of your relationship with sex, this may not be the appropriate container for you. You deserve support from a licensed, trauma-informed professional who is specifically qualified to help you work through that experience.
WHAT YOU’LL RECEIVE:
💋 21 Daily Audio Lessons
Beginning Monday, September 28, you’ll receive one audio lesson from me each day to help you get honest about what you want, own it without shame, express it without apology, and begin moving accordingly.
💋 21 Daily Exercises + Challenges
Each lesson will include an accompanying exercise designed to help you go deeper, apply what you’re learning, and begin taking real action in your life.
💋 A Private Sexy Back Telegram Group
You’ll have access to a private Telegram group throughout the challenge for support, accountability, and real-time conversation with me and the other women inside.
This is where you’ll share what’s coming up, talk through the challenges, celebrate the moves you’re making, and maintain the momentum to keep showing up for the full 21 days.
💋 BONUS: Two Live Group Coaching + Q&A Calls
Monday, October 5 at 3 p.m. Pacific
Monday, October 19 at 3 p.m. Pacific
Bring your questions, what you’re exploring, what’s coming up for you, and anywhere you’re feeling stuck.
💋 BONUS: Write Your Sexy Dating Profile Bio
A training complete with prompts and guidance to help you write a bold, honest, magnetic dating profile bio - one that communicates what you actually want, captures who you are, and attracts the people and experiences you’re looking for.
READY? LET’S DO THIS.
Or upgrade to VIP and receive the complete Sexy Back experience plus a private 60-minute coaching session with me.
Want to split your payment? Afterpay and Klarna are available at checkout for eligible customers.
All sales are final.
a final note from sara
There will always be someone eager to tell women what we should want, how we should behave, and what makes us feminine, desirable, respectable, or worthy.
But your sexuality is yours.
You get to decide what you want.
You get to decide what turns you on, what you want to explore, who you want to experience it with, and what kind of sexual woman you want to be.
Maybe that means exploring casual sex. Maybe it means finally telling your partner what you’re craving. Maybe it means buying the toy, having the threesome, exploring submission, or admitting that you want something you’ve spent years pretending you don’t.
Nobody else gets to make that decision for you.
Sexy Back is 21 days of refusing to let fear, shame, other people’s judgment, or someone else’s definition of femininity keep you disconnected from this part of yourself.
Your sexuality belongs to you. It’s time to fucking claim it.